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Believing
in your kids Self esteem is the most important aspect of our children's lives.
If you believe that you can do it, then you probably can. Unfortunately, many kids are
told quite the opposite, especially if they don't quite "fit in." Kids with
learning disabilities, ADD/ADHD, victims of bullies and many others get
constant messages, that they are not worthy. Many of these messages come from teachers,
parents and others who are supposed to be helping them. Quickly, they will believe it and
it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Thomas Edison
& self esteem
Thomas Edison was
dyslexic and was rejected by his teacher, yet he was saved by acceptance from his mother.
In an interview with Frederick Bennett, Ph.D., he cited
the story of Thomas Edison where
he says, "Edison
was not the first nor the last bright student for whom regular schooling was not ideal.
Just as homeschooling was correct for him, it is the same for many other children.
Probably the greatest benefit that Edison received from his homeschooling was the
influence that his mother had upon him, over and above the academic material she provided.
Edison later said of her, "She instilled in me the love and purpose of
learning." I would say that to fill a child with the "love and purpose of
learning" is the most important benefit of all schooling."
We have some great FREE inspirational video clips (below) that can help you help your child from Dr.
Robert Brooks who talks about "Islands of Competence" and the need to celebrate
and reinforce of them. Richard Lavoi then has another video clip about making sure that
your child gets enough poker chips for the game of life.
Celebrating
"Islands of Competence"
 Dr.
Robert Brooks is a clinical psychologist who has worked with special needs children and
their families for over 25 years. He is also the author of the best-selling book, The
Self-Esteem Teacher and Raising
Resilient Children
About the Book:
He says that parents' core goal should be to
instill in their children a sense of inner recourse. "A resilient child is an
emotionally healthy child, equipped to successfully confront challenges and bounce back
from setbacks," they contend, and to this end they provide 10 parenting
"guideposts" for nurturing the kind of resilience that helps children thrive.
From being empathic, to teaching problem-solving, to identifying "islands of
competence" in order to help a child experience success, to editing and eliminating
what the authors call "negative scripts" (what parents hear themselves saying
and doing repeatedly, "with negligible beneficial results")
Read more
about the book.
Video Clip
Synopsis:
Children know listen to what people
tell them. If they are told negative things about themselves, they will believe it. When
asked, people who are "resilient" say that the most important thing that helped
them through adversity, was that there was at least one adult who believed in them and
stood by them. People with poor self esteem have trouble thinking of such a person and
most people are "prosecuting attorneys" as opposed to "defense
attorneys."
See his 5 minute video clip
Dr. Robert Brooks is a clinical psychologist who has worked
with special needs children and their families for over 25 years. A renowned speaker, he
is on the faculty at Harvard Medical School and was formerly director of the department of
psychology at McLean Hospital in Belmont, Massachusetts.
Does
Your Child have Enough Poker Chips?
  Using the metaphor of self-esteem as
"poker chips." Children with good self-esteem have tons and tons of poker chips
because good things have happened to them. He says that learning disabled children very
often just don't have enough chips. Richard Lavoie tells us that when our children have
success, they get "poker chips" which are needed for the games of adult
life. It is the duty of teachers and parents to find what Bob
Brooks calls "islands of competence" within the child. He says that
you have to be a "talent scout" and find areas need to be celebrated and
reinforced. Each day, a child needs to have success, be praised and get more poker chips.
Each day a child need to get more poker chip than they started with.
Richard Lavoie, M.A., M.Ed. has worked in special education
since 1972, as a teacher, administrator, author, and consultant. He is currently Executive
Director of Riverview School, a residential school for children with learning
disabilities, in East Sandwich, Massachusetts.
Nobody's
Perfekt
 This is a video
that provides an overview of learning disabilities. This fifty-seven minute documentary
explores the "hidden handicap," while explaining the differences between
learning disabilities, including dyslexia, ADD and ADHD. You'll meet three families who
have dealt with their own special set of circumstances to better understand their child's
difficulties. You'll hear from experts and teachers who are working together with families
and their children helping them to overcome their learning disabilities. Nobody's
Perfekt is an insightful and empowering guide for parents and teachers.
Comments
Try doing a
scrapbook with your child
From: Marcia
Macomber
No
matter how little they are the can pick colors to decorate the page, get a scrapbook NOT a photo album so you can write
there memories and stories of the event or person.
- Make sure there's lots of pictures of the child and lots of
family and friends, places and things important to them even if you think its the worst
picture ever taken.
If you have
access, you can scan pictures into a computer and print them that way you get as many
copies as you need you can also crop, enlarge or shrink a picture.
- This also helps with learning to tell stories in sequence,
dexterity and recognizing letters and words.
Dyslexia is not
just mixing up letters
 Peggy M. Wilber, M.Ed., author of Reading Rescue 1 - 2
- 3 says, "Contrary to what many people think, dyslexia is not just mixing up letters
d and b. (That, by the way, is a common trait of children up through third
grade and is not the major tool for diagnosing dyslexia.) Dyslexia is defined as having a
"deficit in auditory and language skills. Researchers know that 95 percent of all
children who receive proper instructiona combination of auditory training, phonic
instruction, and application of phonics by reading lots of printed materials such as books
and magazinesbecome able to read at grade level. This means that only a small
percentage of children in America truly suffer from dyslexia."
see
more of this interview
Meet the Author
Ronald D. Davis
"The Gift of Dyslexia"
Why some of the
smartest people can't read and how they can learn
interview
& FREE excerpt
hosted by Sue Spataro, RN, BSN
 In this exciting book, Davis shares the
startling discovery he made which helped him overcome his own dyslexia; reveals how
dyslexia may be linked to uncommonly high levels of intelligence, creativity, and
imagination; and outlines a clear and simple plan that anyone can use to help themselves
or others conquer this all-too-common disability. In this interview, Davis discusses:
Signs of Dyslexia; The "Gift" of Dyslexia; Dyslexia &
Disorientation; Dyslexia & the Family; Labels; a FREE Book Excerpt:
on The Underlying Talent which discusses gifted dyslexics throughout history. Find out
more.
Meet the Authors
Mariaemma Willis, M.S.
& Victoria Kindle Hodson, M.A.
"Discover Your Child's
Learning Style"
hosted by Joe Spataro
Interview & FREE Excerpt
 Mariaemma
Willis, M.S., and Victoria Kindle Hodson, M.A., have written a sensitive,
thought-provoking book that honors and celebrates the unique learning styles of all
children.
In this interview hosted by Joe Spataro, the authors discuss their ideas on ADD, ADHD,
dyslexia, homeschooling, afterschooling as well as an easy to follow way to assess your
child. This book challenges the assumption at the heart of the traditional school system:
that all children learn (and therefore should be taught) in the same way. The book
contains a step-by-step program of self awareness test that guide you to a better
understanding of your childs unique strengths and weaknesses. Normally, these tests
would cost hundreds of dollars, but now you can do it yourself and help your child achieve
a better inner peace while helping them achieve their goals and fulfill their interests. |
 
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