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Newsletter Library | ADD & Special Kids Support
James D. Sutton, EdD, CSP
"If My Kid’s So Nice…Why Is He Driving Me Crazy?"
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Special Needs Kids: ADD | Asperger's Syndrome | Autism | Bipolar | Dyslexia | Explosive Children | Gifted | ODD |   SID | Speech Disorders
Introduction

joe2.jpg (4335 bytes)Joe:
mtalogo.gif (2318 bytes)Welcome to our discussion here with Dr. James Sutton. As an educator, he has taught everything from grade school to graduate school. His interest in working with emotionally troubled youngsters motivated him to earn a doctorate in psychology. Today, Dr. Sutton addresses the needs of young people as a consulting psychologist, an author, and an accomplished speaker. His years of service to young people, and those who serve them, have included consultation with public and private schools and school districts, educational service centers, hospitals, residential treatment and group home facilities, juvenile probation authorities, special education cooperatives, and child service agencies.

Dr. Sutton has authored many books, guides and cassette training programs for child service professionals. His book If My Kid's So Nice...Why's He Driving ME Crazy? was named "Editor's Choice" by Learning magazine. His most recent book is entitled 101 Ways to Make Your Classroom Special: Creating a place where significance, teamwork, and spontaneity can sprout and flourish.

Joe:
Thank you Dr. Sutton for taking the time out of your busy schedule to be here. How did you come to become interested in ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder) and what caused you to focus on the aspect of ODD you call "The Good Kid" Disorder?

sutton.jpg (3266 bytes)Dr. Sutton:
Thank you, Joe for inviting me. I became interested as a classroom teacher, noticing that some youngsters had all the personality and ability in the world, but were doing squat. I wondered why, and begin to look into it. I guess "The Good Kid Disorder" really isn't ODD at all, but a milder (but incredibly more persistent, and affecting many more youngsters) form of oppositional and defiant behavior. These kids are "normal" in most every other regard except compliance and achievement. They have friends and other social relationships, a sense of family, and they are not aggressive or violent. Their behaviors take the form of oppositionality and defiance.

joe2.jpg (4335 bytes)Joe:
What kind of behaviors are we talking about?

sutton.jpg (3266 bytes)Dr. Sutton:
Usually those behaviors that annoy and irritate others, such as refusal to complete schoolwork or appropriately handle responsibilities at home. More specifically, behaviors to watch for include psychological distress (irritability, fear, anger and depression), inefficiency (forgetting, poor skills of concentration and organization, procrastination, and poor performance in school), and manifestations of anger (pouting, stubbornness, blaming, arguing, spitefulness, and noncompliance).

joe2.jpg (4335 bytes)Joe:
Many kids who "act up" are often diagnosed as ADD. How would you differentiate ADD from ODD?

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Meet the Author
The Explosive Child

by Ross Greene, Ph.D.
hosted by Joe Spataro
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click here to learn more about this bookrossgreene.jpg (4878 bytes)Now there is a new way for you, your child, and your entire family to find help. In this groundbreaking new book, Dr. Ross Greene, a child psychologist at Massachusetts General Hospital and Harvard Medical School, makes a compassionate argument that the difficulties of these children stem from developmental deficits in two critical skills: flexibility and frustration tolerance. He asserts that if such children could do well, they would. We have an interview with Dr. Greene and an excerpt for his book that will help you identify if you child has this problem and what you can do about it.

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The Explosive Child
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Meet the Authors
Mariaemma Willis, M.S.
& Victoria Kindle Hodson, M.A.
"Discover Your Child's Learning Style"
hosted by Joe Spataro
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Mariaemma Willis, M.S., and Victoria Kindle Hodson, M.A., have written a sensitive, thought-provoking book that honors and celebrates the unique learning styles of all children. In this interview hosted by Joe Spataro, the authors discuss their ideas on ADD, ADHD, dyslexia, homeschooling, afterschooling as well as an easy to follow way to assess your child.

If My Kid's So Nice... Why's He Driving Me Crazy?:
Straight Talk About the 'Good Kid' Disorder
by James D. Sutton
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From the author, James D. Sutton, "A book about kids who seldom hurt anyone, but annoy everyone  As a classroom teacher who later became a child and adolescent psychologist, I was both intrigued and annoyed by those youngsters who made noncompliance their "speciality." These kids were oppositional and defiant long before we had a category to put them in. In many ways they were good kids; they didn't hurt anyone, but they annoyed everyone! Although "If My Kid's So Nice ... Why's He Driving ME Crazy?" discusses Oppositional Defiant Disorder, my main objective in writing this book was to address the behaviors of those youngsters who might not be ODD yet, and what we can do with and for them. We have many youngsters who will probably never be formally diagnosed as ODD, but their behaviors are a problem, just the same. One rather unique focus of this book is the chapter on compliance at school; it's by far the largest of the 17 chapters. "

101 Ways to Make Your Classroom Special:
Creating a Place Where Significance, Teamwork, and Spontaneity Can Sprout and Flourish
by James D. Sutton
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The Difficult Child
by Stanley, M.D. Turecki, Leslie Tonner
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An expanded edition of the new child-care classic welcomed by both parents and professionals for both its groundbreaking insights into problem behavior and its compassionate, practical advice.

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