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Newsletter Library | ADD & Special Kids Support
James D. Sutton, EdD, CSP
"If My Kid’s So Nice…
Why Is He Driving Me Crazy?"
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Introduction | FREE excerpt "The Quick Fix" | ADD & ODD
ADD & ODD

joe2.jpg (4335 bytes)Joe:
Many kids who "act up" are often diagnosed as ADD. How would you differentiate ADD from ODD?

sutton.jpg (3266 bytes)Dr. Sutton:
First of all, even the experts agree that we've gone nuts with ADD. A survey of pediatric psychiatrists indicated that at least half of all ADD diagnoses are wrong. This is because the symptoms of ADD can be related to other conditions also, such as trauma, anxiety and depression. In manifestation they LOOK the same as ADD. But, since we have the "magic bullet," medication, we tend to see everything as the condition that it fixes.

Basically ADD is biological/neurological, coming from a sluggishly operating Reticular Activating System in the brain that helps a youngster exercise control of input and behavior. It's always the predisposing condition, since it is there at birth. ODD describes reactionary behaviors to situations, environments and people. The ADD child can become ODD (and often does ... this is called "comorbidity.), but the ODD child does not become ADD.

joe2.jpg (4335 bytes)Joe:
More kids than ever are being diagnosed as ADD and are being placed on medications such as Ritalin and Adderal. Is this "epidemic" real and do you think that these medications are being used appropriately? Do you think that many are actually ODD. Would this change of diagnosis also change their therapy?

sutton.jpg (3266 bytes)Dr. Sutton:
My answer to the previous question addresses most of this one. Of course it would change treatment if we determined that a child was depressed, and that their inattention, hyperactivity and impulsivity were coming from that, and not ADD. If follows that, if the psychiatrists interviewed were correct,
then we have too many children taking amphatemine medication that don't really need it. The course of treatment for anxiety and depression is distinctly different, even thought the manifested behaviors might look much the same.  

joe2.jpg (4335 bytes)Joe:
Many people feel that dietary modification is an important part of ADD therapy. Do you think there is a role for dietary modification in the treatment of ODD?

sutton.jpg (3266 bytes)Dr. Sutton:
Most experts fell that many things can affect a child's ability to tolerate frustration, and basically affect their delicate sensitivities. This could include foods, learning disabilities, illnesses ... many things. It might be that diet would help some ODD children, but I believe that, with the ODD youngsters, the issues are more psychological and relational rather than physical. This is the only way I can account for how the same youngster will have trouble with one teacher, and not another. It's more "What's eating you?" rather "What are you eating?" Anyway, that's my take on it after about 23 years of study.

joe2.jpg (4335 bytes)Joe:
Are you working on another book and could you let us in what it is about?

sutton.jpg (3266 bytes)Dr. Sutton:
I recently finished "101 Ways to Make your Classroom Special." It really "fits" with youngsters who tend to be oppositional and defiant. These tips came from top shelf teachers all over the country. The middle section of the book deals with task initiation and completion ... compliance, in other words.

My current book project is just about finished. I am working with an author in North Carolina on a book of 114 grandparent-grandkid stories. It's a "Chicken Soup-" type book, and we have contributions by some well-known folks, inlcuding Zig Ziglar, Art Linketter, Thelma Wells, Louis Wyse, "Dear Abby," John Wooden, Mike Ditka ... well, lots of folks. This project was a breather from the educational/clinical stuff I have been writing. Check out a few of the stories on the website.

joe2.jpg (4335 bytes)Joe:
Thank you, Dr. Sutton for your comments. Next I would like to share a FREE excerpt which is Chapter 7 from your wonderful book. Thank you for allowing us to reprint it here.

Book Excerpt
"If My Kid’s So Nice…
Why Is He Driving Me Crazy?"
by Dr. James D. Sutton
Chapter 7: The Quick Fix (pgs 69-76)
Reprinted by permission of the authors from "If My Kid’s So Nice…Why Is He Driving Me Crazy?" All rights reserved. This may not be reprinted without the express written permission of the author © 1999 Dr. James D. Sutton

ADD & ODD
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Meet the Authors
Mariaemma Willis, M.S.
& Victoria Kindle Hodson, M.A.
"Discover Your Child's Learning Style"
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Mariaemma Willis, M.S., and Victoria Kindle Hodson, M.A., have written a sensitive, thought-provoking book that honors and celebrates the unique learning styles of all children. In this interview hosted by Joe Spataro, the authors discuss their ideas on ADD, ADHD, dyslexia, homeschooling, afterschooling as well as an easy to follow way to assess your child.

If My Kid's So Nice... Why's He Driving Me Crazy?:
Straight Talk About the 'Good Kid' Disorder

by James D. Sutton
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From the author, James D. Sutton, "A book about kids who seldom hurt anyone, but annoy everyone  As a classroom teacher who later became a child and adolescent psychologist, I was both intrigued and annoyed by those youngsters who made noncompliance their "speciality." These kids were oppositional and defiant long before we had a category to put them in. In many ways they were good kids; they didn't hurt anyone, but they annoyed everyone! Although "If My Kid's So Nice ... Why's He Driving ME Crazy?" discusses Oppositional Defiant Disorder, my main objective in writing this book was to address the behaviors of those youngsters who might not be ODD yet, and what we can do with and for them. We have many youngsters who will probably never be formally diagnosed as ODD, but their behaviors are a problem, just the same. One rather unique focus of this book is the chapter on compliance at school; it's by far the largest of the 17 chapters. "

The Defiant Child:
A Parent's Guide to Oppositional Defiant Disorder

by Douglas Riley

The American Psychiatric Association estimates that sixteen percent of children in the United States may have oppositional defiant disorder. These kids relentlessly push the boundaries set for them by authority figures. By exploring the mindset of O.D.D. children and explaining the way they operate, Dr. Douglas Riley teaches parents how to recognize the signs and modify the behavior of their O.D.D.

The Difficult Child
by Stanley, M.D. Turecki, Leslie Tonner
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An expanded edition of the new child-care classic welcomed by both parents and professionals for both its groundbreaking insights into problem behavior and its compassionate, practical advice.

The Strong-Willed Child:
Birth Through Adolescence

by James C. Dobson

The Strong-Willed Child is a practical, "how-to" book on discipline and child-rearing, which focuses on sibling rivalry, hyperactivity, self-esteem, and the most common errors made by frustrated parents.

The Good Son:
Shaping the Moral Development of Our Boys and Young Men

by Michael Gurian

The author of two groundbreaking bestsellers introduces a comprehensive cradle-to-college parenting program for raising ethical sons. In his eagerly awaited new book, therapist and educator Michael Gurian presents the definitive guide to the moral development of our boys and young men. He takes readers through a complete parenting program, showing them how to instill virtues in boys at each of the three stages of life: The Age of Obedience (birth to six); The Age of Convention (seven to twelve); and The Age of Moral Intuition (thirteen to eighteen).

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Reprinted by permission of the authors from "If My Kid’s So Nice…Why Is He Driving Me Crazy?" All rights reserved. This may not be reprinted without the express written permission of the author © 1999 Dr. James D. Sutton
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